But there are many styles of growing old, not all of them focused on appearance. On the contrary, many women over 80 lead vibrant, active lives, continuing their customary work, interests and relationships and contributing to the common good. Why not choose to highlight these exemplary women instead, or at least include them as well? Lynne Sharon SchwartzNew YorkThe writer is a novelist and poet. To the Editor:If the biggest problem these women are dealing with is getting their makeup on for an evening out, they can consider themselves extremely lucky.

Source: New York Times May 26, 2019 17:03 UTC